Dealing With Difficult Managers

You can't do without a job. You need one toYour manager has a boss. The best thing to do is
survive. When you do get the job there might beto tell the boss about the problem so that he will
problems. One problem that comes up often athave to talk things over with your manager.
work places is dealing with managers that are justThere are chances that the boss may call your
difficult. There are certain managers who will reallymanager alone, and you don't see the result
your job less enjoyable. Those bosses become aimmediately. But with time the result may come.
de-motivating factor in your career. The only thingBut there could be the situation where the boss
you should do is to learn how to deal with thisdoes not believe what you say. That demands
manager. Here are some suggestions to follow.more evidence.
Understand your managerGo with coworkers
The first step in dealing with a difficult manager isFor the boss to really see the problem, you will
to find out why he is difficult. This calls for anhave to let other workers under the same
objective analysis of the situation. There aremanager join you. If all other workers confirm
many reasons why managers could be consideredwhat you say, the boss might be willing to take
as difficult. Some are difficult because they insistaction. You must not do this in a confrontational
on the right things being done. Such people aremanner.
principled and could fun to work with when youAsk for a transfer
relate to them according to the laid downIf the above does not succeed, then you must
principles. There are some that are difficultfind a way of moving away from this manager.
because by nature, they are bossy and will wantAsk to be transferred to another department if
to make everybody feel subservient. You willthat is possible. Take this step if you still believe in
have to deal with them too.that particular organization or that job means a lot
Tell them about itto you. You keep your job but you work with
The next thing to do in this case is to confrontanother manager.
the manager with the issue. You should let himIn case transfer is not possible, look for a new
know how s/he is making things difficult for you.job and quit. Escaping from the problem is still an
You will have to be polite about this. Chances areoption. You may state in your resignation letter
that such managers don't know that they makewhy you have taken such an action. That may
things difficult for members of their teams.force the manager to change.
Confronting them with the issue may make themThere is not need suffering quietly under a difficult
change. If this does not work, you can take themanager when there are many ways of dealing
next step.with such people.
Tell his/her boss